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By Staff Writer | April 10, 2025
WASHINGTON, D.C. — Former First Lady Michelle Obama has addressed swirling rumors of a divorce from former President Barack Obama, putting speculation to rest with a candid and powerful statement that challenges the narrative around women, marriage, and personal autonomy.
The comments come days after Barack Obama publicly acknowledged the toll his presidency took on their relationship, admitting to a college audience that he’s been working to “dig out of a deficit” with his wife since leaving the White House.
In a wide-ranging interview on Sophia Bush’s Work in Progress podcast, Michelle Obama scoffed at persistent divorce rumors, explaining that her recent decision to skip several high-profile events was rooted in self-care — not relationship turmoil.
“So much so that people, they couldn’t even fathom that I was making a choice for myself, that they had to assume that my husband and I are divorcing,” she said.
The former First Lady, 61, criticized societal expectations that suggest women’s independent choices must be linked to marital strife. “That’s what society does to us,” she said. “If it doesn’t fit into the stereotype of what people think we should do, then it gets labelled as something negative and horrible.”
Her remarks follow former President Barack Obama’s unusually blunt admission at Hamilton College last week, where he described being in a “deep deficit” with Michelle and said he’s been trying to rebuild their bond by spending more quality time together.
“Let me just say this: It sure helps to be out of the White House,” he told CBS Mornings last year, adding that Michelle had been “forgiving” despite the stress of raising two daughters in the public eye during his presidency.
The Obamas, who have been married since 1992, have long spoken honestly about the ups and downs of their relationship. Michelle has previously acknowledged that she “couldn’t stand” Barack for nearly a decade during the early years of parenting and career building, noting that marriage is never perfectly balanced.
“Marriage isn’t 50/50 — ever,” she once said. “There’s sometimes I’m 70, he’s 30, but guess what? We’ve been married 30 [years]. I would take 10 bad years over 30.”
Divorce rumors began gaining steam earlier this year after Barack appeared solo at high-profile events, including former President Jimmy Carter’s funeral and Donald Trump’s second inauguration. An anonymous source in January claimed Michelle was “checked out” of political life in Washington, further fueling the gossip.
But the former president seemingly put those rumors to rest with a Valentine’s Day post to Michelle, writing: “Thirty-two years together and you still take my breath away,” alongside a smiling selfie of the two.
For now, the Obamas appear to be confronting their relationship challenges in the open — dispelling rumors with honesty, mutual respect, and a shared commitment to each other.
“We’re still here. We’re still us,” Michelle’s words imply — and perhaps, that’s all the answer we need.
Thirty-two years together and you still take my breath away. Happy Valentine’s Day, @MichelleObama! pic.twitter.com/wiIJ0kstRm
— Barack Obama (@BarackObama) February 14, 2025
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